People have different preferences when it comes to passing time alone. Some would love being alone and enjoy it while others always enjoy having time around friends, family or even with people they have just met, so long as someone is around. People who like being around people can find it so boring and they can feel lonely. But it is important to have some time alone to meditate on your life, to make sound decisions and it is also a way of making yourself more self-sufficient.
So if you are someone who enjoys your own company you are lucky, but if you don’t worry too much. Some people find it heard being around people while others need to learn on how to be alone. Today I’m here to help with those who get headaches being alone. Here is how:
- learn to connect with people online
When you are alone, you can still connect with others online. Use your social media platforms, post, follow and like people’s posts. Laugh at loud at what is funny and post funny stuff too. Connect with people through online games too, gamble on tangkasnet, compete with others on Temple run, crash some candy and celebrate when you win, try some more when you lose.
- Listen to music
Music is food to the soul, identify the type of music you like, create a playlist and move with the beats. Sing alone if you know the lyrics, don’t mind your voice notes, just sing!
- You have your hobby, do it
You know what you enjoy doing when you find free time, maybe you like watching movies, you can read wide, you love working out, go for it. Do what makes you feel high-spirited and trust me you will start loving your company.
- know that it’s a choice
Don’t have a feeling that you are doing it because you have no other option, have an attitude of it’s your choice so no regrets. You still have friends out there and family and there is a lover too out there but you have chosen to have some alone time because you need it. With such an attitude, your alone time will be so nourishing and life improving.